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BREAK OVER (II)

AND THE BIG BLOW


Hmm,its sad and bitter but.........

I am sure EFO MAWULI will never come back with the continuation of BREAK OVER as he has said earlier.I would have to continue to make the story whole just like I am doing in his life.

At exactly 18 hours 34 minutes on the 17th day after the GARDEN WEDDING,we lost the most powerful source of inspiration the late CELESTINE FUMEY,a wonderful woman indeed.

I beseech you guys all to help me you this platform to say my tribute to such an industrious and inspirational woman (MY MOTHER IN LAW).


I pay tribute to the memory of a woman who has imparted my life in different ways within a short 

period of knowing her. "Sister" as I simply call her accepted and took me as her own blood. 

Typically related to her through my husband, sister inspired and supported her children like my 

husband to be either virtuous wives or responsible husbands to their spouses. I saw her as 

great liaison officer (mother) as she was the first contact person to me when I willingly and truly 

decided to join this family.

She was actually great visionary and unmaterialistic in nature and therefore accepted me in my 

stature in life. At an extreme provocation, I never saw her angered.

She accorded me with all the befitting respect, love and recognition and decorum. Sister was a 
woman who took note of my little kindness and showed her appreciation. She will tell all friends, 
all her children including her husband to join in thanking me for how good I have been to her.

Sister I mourn your demise at a time when you shortly blessed the union between my husband 
and I. Your absence on that fateful day was a big blow to me but today is much heavier.

To your memory, I shall continue to love my husband and together with him raise our children to 
reflect in their future lives, the principles you held so dearly.

Sister, sleep soundly and rest from your toils.

May the good Lord keep you in Heaven till we see you again.

Have a sound sleep.

Da  yie


by......dzifa caroline








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