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''Give me a man, with whom I will serve You...'' A legendary love story

Bonjour, 

I am tearing up listening to Mama Gloria Bamiloye saying something about her husband, Evangelist Mike Bamiloye. They inspired me to write this.

Most of my posts so far has been on praying about your marriage and making God the centre of it. 
To the singles out there, have you ever thought of communicating with God about your future partner? 
Do you have expectations(specs) of whom you would like to share the rest of your life with? 

Go to God in prayer and ask Him to give you what you want. The best part of God anwering your prayer is Him giving you what is actually Best for you. He knows what you need but He needs you to ask for it. 

Now to today's topic; Marriage can actually take you to hell; either here on earth or after you are dead! That is why I have my slogan of, ''it is not here that matters, but in the end, before my creator".

This phrase (title for today), from Mama Gloria, shook me. It made me think back to what I had prayed for in a husband. God loves me too much. He brought me what I needed, to bring me closer to Him(God). I had asked for a man who would love me, and help me. Guess what, if I had not asked this, I would have gotten worse! But Because I asked, He gave me a teacher, a life partner who does not only love me, but helps me to get closer to my God each passing day. Everyday with my husband teaches me something new and that is why I say God loves me. I learnt everything I know now about marrying the right way, IN marriage. 

I would love for you to watch this video here;

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LjxSWJwRyWQ

May God continue to bless our marriages

#FIXIT
CFC

Marriage the right way.


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Written by Rev Mrs Caroline Dzifa Fumey

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