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THERE IS ALWAYS A MOMENT.

JUST AS I AM,YOUNG AND FREE...TO BE THE BEST THAT I CAN BE...

My young heart burst with a longing to serve the Lord GENUINELY , that night, as sat on my bathroom floor in my new house,somewhere in Asia. I was flooded with His joy and the knowledge of His love for me personally.  I begun to think back, how my life had begun as a young child in a school run by soldiers: as a soldier himself, my dad was full of hope for my bright future.

I was sent to one of the best Secondary schools in Ghana, West Africa. I graduated with good grades and had admission into two prominent universities in Ghana. Now the twist, my parents refused to send me to either of those universities because,well they couldn't afford it. (Later on, we will find out the genuine reasons why)

I ended up in the teachers training college where I was trained to become a professional teacher. Before entering the college, I had met a beautiful man.. He was playing the role of adviser and friend at this time. Then my boyfriend for two months and then a platonic friend again for three years. 

My walk with this young man; the experiences we share together, experiences from both our extended families, experiences from our childhoods,experiences with our friendships with other people and most importantly our walk and faith in God with regards to being married and staying married is what I would be sharing with you over the next few days. 

I hope I am able to inspire you and reveal to you some very hidden ingredients to staying married. My wish is for you to hear something you have not heard before, perhaps the hard truth to keeping that marriage together. 

                             
                                               Ephesians 4:2
                             WITH ALL LOWLINESS AND MEEKNESS,
                                        WITH    LONG-SUFFERING,
                               FORBEARING ONE ANOTHER IN LOVE


As mentioned in an earlier post, there are fun challenges to this. So this week, lets do the kissing marathon. Strictly for couples of the CFC(Couples for Christ).  Lets have fun kissing our partners this week. 
Comment CFC.     Lets fix that marriage!





By Rev. Mrs Caroline Dzifa Fumey

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